The disadvantage of late marriage. At the emerging age, almost all the girls have strong wedding illusions. All the silly surroundings only find the beautiful boy. When the girls fall in love, they become anxious about marriage. They are even ready to run away and get married.
But if there is a long and deep affair with anyone, if age is increased, it is literate, most of them are apathetic to marry. When parents bring marriage for them, they dismissed the tears of the nose in protest. To see the world, enjoying the age, the experience of enriching, after studying holding a career, and by holding a daring perspective. At that time, even like many boys, but they do not find the worth they want in a boy.
The age of the University crosses the age of twenty-five. In addition to the BCS or any other competitive examinations, women should be under pressure to prove their eligibility as well as men. She also got success in the examination. Then run on their feet, struggle to be self-reliant, struggle to make yourself.
But in the meantime, Padma Meghna Yamuna’s water rolls in a lot. The clouds become clouded in a lot of time. The cost of the golden section of lifespans.
When finds a good boy has become difficult in the wedding market, it becomes a doubt for them. The talented girl who ends the Honors Master’s, or it becomes a BCS cadre, and looking for a big shock in the BCS cadre, looking for a huge qualified man in the wedding market, but eligible utensils are huge shocked pottery in his thirty-plus age. The relatives of the vessel sat with the dignity of modern horror.
The 21-22 years old golden dreams have become pale at 30 years of age. Somewhere in the flooding of her flatness somewhere in the secret rusty. Her huge and light shines become dark night in her world. A safe shelter in the dedicated world, that she continued to shake this ruthless truth after that she was very helpless, fearing that he trembles and uncertain. For a small family of husbands, she is also ready to sacrifice all the hard-earned degrees and qualifications throughout life.
During our society finding a bride, such unfortunate women I met. I gave some sad events.
A friend list has a women BCS cadre official who is looking for an ‘eligible’ groom at the age of 34 and now looking for a ‘fairly’ marker groom. One of the big sister doctors on the friend list. For 6 years, he has been given ineligible to find a ‘qualified’ groom. Age 35 is going on. The first target of his family would not marry without a doctor’s groom. When the marriage decided when the age of 29, some senior doctors were getting the groom, but they did not like them. The age of finding the pot is now coming to 35. Now the doctor is not getting the groom. Do not get any more. Now the groom will be in the boy. Even Junior doesn’t matter.
This sister has passed a higher education, higher degree and crossed the age of marriage. The goal of her life was to take a higher degree. That goal has been fulfilled but the marriage age has passed. Now it is not possible to get a groom to so many degrees. Her age is now 38/39.
The friend has caught me to make him a festival. I talk with myself sometimes. Age 38 is going on. The family can not yet marry due to a problem. This is the main problem of late marriage, so this is a disadvantage.
Actually, there is time to work on time. Many girls are indifferent to marriage for education, carrier, etc. But the boys want to get married to Junior’s girls about 5/6 years old junior girl even she has a big career. As well as the most demanded girls in the educated society are 16 to 22 years old.
A senior colleague in the office, “I could not shampoo the hair in the absence of money, and now we can not give shampoo in the absence of hair.” So there is no late in marriage (disadvantage).
‘Alqama reported: While I was going along with ‘Abdullah b. Masud (Allah be pleased with him) in Mina, ‘Uthman b. ‘Affan (Allah be pleased with him) happened to meet him and said: Come here, Abu ‘Abd al-Rahman (kunya of Abdullah b. Mas’ud), and he isolated him (from me), and when ‘Abdullah (b.Mas’ud) saw that there was no need (for this privacy), he said to me: ‘Alqama, come on, and so I went there. (Then) ‘Uthman said to him: Abu Abd al-Rahman, should we not marry you to a virgin girl that your past may be recalled to your mind?’Abdullah said: If you say so, the rest of the hadith is the same as narrated above.
( Sahih Muslim Hadith no: 3232)
