Shakespeare said, “A boy can never be a friend of a girl because there is emotion here, there is a physical desire.” The same thing says Irish poet Oscar Wilde. “It is impossible to have a relationship between women and men. Whatever it may have is desire, weakness, hatred or love.”
Humayun Ahmed said, “The boy and the girl can be friends, but they must be in love. Maybe for a very short time or at the wrong time. Or it is very late, or not for all times. But they will fall in love.”
– In fact, friendships in the boy and girl are impossible and against nature. Because only friendship will lose its own existence. Magnets and iron can never stay as well. Will attract. If someone avoids it, he is hypocritical or deceiving. Wax on the side of the fire. Boys and daughters maybe friendship, but once in love or illegal, take it. And that’s normal.
But they strongly support these comments strongly flirtationship, which means to snatch. Sexual interpretation of words or sexual interviews. Last a few years ago, we used to see friendships of boy and daughter from respect to brothers and sisters.
But at the present time, it has become a look at Flirtationship from Friendship ahead and it is from the visit of Western culture. The biggest thing is that this is the most popular form of Girl Friend, Boy Friend Relations because there is no accountability to anyone, there is no commitment. Both independently fill the physical desire. And it may cause social and cultural conflicts. As Bangladesh is traditionally the number of Muslim numbers in the country. The ambition of the Western culture and the tool of pretending to assert himself as modern. So if the parents are not alert now, then we are moving towards that culture when a boy or girl can not surely tell him who is his parents!
So look at your sister or girl; Brother or son is associated with whom! The company is most important here. The beginning of the change will be beautiful only before our world.
Sir.
I didn’t find any logic behind this. Please provide some logic. Cause I have too many female friends, and have a girlfriend too, but I am not sexually attached with them, a boy can be e A friend of a girl. And according to you, girl should have to talk only with his boyfriend, she can’t talk with any other boy, as a friend.
So please give me some logical explanation about this.
Americans who admit to having extramarital sex most likely cheat with a close friend, according to research from the University of Colorado Boulder’s Department of Psychology and Neuroscience.
Just over half (53.5 percent) of those reporting extramarital sex said they were unfaithful with someone they knew well, such as a close friend. About a third of affairs is with someone who’s somewhat well-known, such as a neighbor, co-worker, or long-term acquaintance (about 29.4 percent). The rest of affairs occur with casual acquaintances.
And on the question of who reports cheating more, the researchers—Lindsay Labrecque, a Ph.D. psychology student, and Mark Whisman, a psychology professor at CU Boulder—say it is consistently reported more frequently by men, despite reports from the media and some clinicians that men and women engage in infidelity at similar rates.
The researchers culled data from nine years of the General Social Survey, analyzing responses from 13,030 people nationwide.
The two researchers found that about 21 percent of men and 13 percent of women reported infidelity at some point in their lifetime and that this gender difference has been consistent from 2000 to 2016.
Labrecque adds that men are more likely than women to hold more favorable attitudes about extramarital sex.
Another gender difference: Among those who reported having extramarital sex in the past year, men were much more likely than women to have paid for—or to have received payment for—sex, at about 12 percent compared to just 1 percent.
Labrecque and Whisman say they wanted to shed more light on extramarital sex, especially about the identity of extramarital partners along with gender differences and attitudes.
“I’ve always been very interested in understanding how sex contributes to relationship satisfaction and mental health,” says Labrecque, who plans to work after graduation with couples on sexual and relationship adjustment.
“We know infidelity impacts relationship satisfaction … it’s the most common reason given for divorce or separation and it’s a difficult issue to treat in therapy. A better understanding of all the issues related to extramarital sex may help improve treatment.”
The researchers say they also found that attitudes about extramarital sex are growing slightly more relaxed. “We found that while most Americans still disapprove of extramarital sex, there has been a small change that may reflect more tolerance and flexibility in attitudes,” Labrecque says.
In 2000, about 79 percent of Americans viewed extramarital sex as “always wrong” and about 7 percent of Americans reported extramarital sex as “wrong only sometimes” compared to 76 percent and 9 percent in 2016, respectively.
And again, there were gender differences in these attitudes. Men were less likely to report that extramarital sex was always wrong.
The research also showed that the number of married people who reported ever having sex with someone other than their spouse decreased between 2000 and 2016, albeit by a small percentage. Specifically, the lifetime prevalence of extramarital sex decreased from 17.8 percent in 2000 to 16.3 percent in 2016.
“Overall, rates of extramarital sex have remained fairly constant over the 17-year period and may be lower than popularly held beliefs about extramarital sex reported in the media,” Labrecque says.
As for why people cheat, Whisman says prior experiences of extramarital sex, more permissive attitudes towards extramarital sex, and a greater acceptance of casual sex are all related to a greater likelihood of engaging in extramarital sex.
“With respect to relationship factors, the association between lower relationship satisfaction and extramarital sex is a well-established finding,” Whisman says.
“Finally, there are several contextual variables that have been linked with extramarital sex, including lack of religious attendance, work-related opportunities, and a social group in which extramarital sex is relatively more prevalent and accepted.”
Up next for Labrecque is more work on the topic—studying how, if at all, extramarital sex with different types of partners affects the duration of the marriage. For example, would a couple be more likely to divorce if the husband cheated with a close friend versus someone he didn’t know as well?
“I wonder whether married individuals who have extramarital sex with partners such as a close friend or co-worker are choosing such partners as a commitment to form a new relationship and by proxy, to leave their marriage,” Labrecque says.
“These partners possess or provide inherent qualities including emotional intimacy, closeness, friendship, support, etc., and choosing to have extramarital sex with a partner with these qualities may reflect a preference for a committed and/or intimate extramarital relationship more so than a partner paid for sex or a casual date.”
From the verse of The Holy Quran Allah said,
˹O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, and not to reveal their adornments1 except what normally appears.2 Let them draw their veils over their chests, and not reveal their ˹hidden˺ adornments3 except to their husbands, their fathers, their fathers-in-law, their sons, their stepsons, their brothers, their brothers’ sons or sisters’ sons, their fellow women, those ˹bondwomen˺ in their possession, male attendants with no desire, or children who are still unaware of women’s nakedness. Let them not stamp their feet, drawing attention to their hidden adornments. Turn to Allah in repentance all together, O believers, so that you may be successful.
(Surah An Noor: Verse 30-31)
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
No man should be alone with a strange woman. If they do, then Satan will be their third person.
Sunan at-Tirmidhi, Hadith 1171.
Clear your question?
Do you have any female friend?
No.